Sarah Baker Rules of Attraction Review (Miguel Matos) + Les Liaisons Dangereuses Draw

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It was there, in particular, that I confirmed the truth that love, which we cry up as the source of our pleasures, is nothing more than an excuse for them.” ― Madame de Merteuil, “Les Liaisons Dangereuses” by Pierre Choderlos de Laclos

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Sarah Baker’s fragrances are bold, out-of-the-box affairs that make you sit up and take notice. They can growl take-me-or-leave-me-baby in full, long-lashed drag, as Jungle Jezebel does; reverberate a whisper in an empty room, like Lace; or they can murmur seductively from behind a jeweled fan, communicating through a cloud of carnal flowers what cannot be spoken aloud.

Baker’s Rules of Attraction is described as a “re-consideration of a ball at Versailles” where  the flowers in the garden are all beautiful, but some signal danger. Romantic, certainly, but hardly innocent.” With its smouldering florals and unabashed animalism, Rules of Attraction minuets between jaded hedonism; girlish, Lolita sexuality; and rock star sex goddess in a perfume version of Liaisons Dangereuses rewritten by Nabokov and turned into a film by Guy Ritchie.

Miguel Matos

Miguel Matos, perfumer via Instagram

Created by perfumer Miguel Matos in concert with Sarah Baker, Rules of Attraction is meant as an homage to a “famed fragrance” that is undoubtedly Bal a Versailles. But while it shares some of that classic’s vanillic-woody purr, it is undoubtedly modern. Matos has taken just about every sex-bomb note in creation and dropped it into Rules of Attraction with no apologies and great panache.  Huge white florals, all decked in a glittery veil of aldehydes, feel like an olfactory rock concert. And the way Rules of Attraction plays with sexuality – covert one minute, in-your-face another – would have Bal a Versailles running for her smelling salts.

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Scene from the television series Versailles, Canal +

Rules of Attraction throws wide the doors on the Hall of Mirrors with a thousand brilliant aldehydes swathed across a gardenia the size of a rococo wig. After that brazen opening, you might expect the composition to brazen its way through its buxom white florals. But, unexpectedly, more subdued company enters. Silvery iris, powdered and silken, steps forward. The tempo of the dance slows as the iris gathers its skirts and weaves in and amongst the gardenia and aldehydes, reminding them of their manners. But not for long.

Sarah Baker Rules of Attraction review perfumer Miguel Matos

Queensland Ballet’s Dangerous Liaisons, photo Limelight magazine

Smack in the middle of the pavane, the animalic notes slink, sultry, almost quiet. But then, suddenly, an electric light snaps on, a guitar squeals into the amps, and the rest of the party tumbles in:  indolic jasmine is partnered by unruly civet; disheveled cumin and buxom, buttery tuberose; dark-browed musk and woods. As the candles burn, and the heat rises, the room fills with sweat and flowers. Glove leather is there, watching coldly from the sidelines, iris by his side. Grabbing hold of a handful of flowers, thick vanilla syrup trickles as the night grows older. The air is heady and dense with the smell of the garden and sex.

As the hours wane into morning, the band is mingling with the toffs, the aroma of melting wax, the hall smells of warm skin and soap as couples retire behind the screens and ingenues loll on the chaises longue of the parlour, men with naughty thoughts at their feet. There a catch of grape soda. Iris, staring into the dawn, is alone.

Sarah Baker Rules of Attraction moves between brash, two fingers bigness and a dozen subtler touches that make it feel entirely current. The chameleon-like way it changes from time to time on the skin make it great fun to wear, and the dry-down is wonderful: iris-y, slightly salty, waxy, a bit skanky and almost rosy. I dare you to wear it to bed and dream.

Notes: Cumin, grapefruit, aldehydes, iris, gardenia, jasmine, tuberose, neroli, civet, musk, leather, vanilla, woody notes, animalic notes.

Disclaimer: sample of Sarah Baker Rules of Attraction kindly given to me by Sarah Baker at Pitti Fragranze 2019. My opinions are my own.

Lauryn Beer, Senior Editor

Sarah Baker Rules of Attraction photo Gicquel Boris Aphano

 Sarah Baker Rules of Attraction, courtesy of Sarah Baker photo Gicquel Boris Aphano

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66 comments

  • ElenaChiss says:

    I have not tried anything from Sarah, but would love to start with this one. I am not afraid of big flowers mixed with animalic notes.
    I am in EU. Thank you!

  • phoenixad says:

    Havent tried anything from the brand. This one has intresting notes. Im curious about the chameleon description

    Im in EU

  • BostonScentGuy says:

    An air “heady with the scent of garden and sex” is quite a bold and evocative summary of a fragrance! I have been looking at some vintage, animalic florals as of late, and this sounds very much up my alley of what I’m looking for in one of these scents. I love hearing that it perhaps smells like an homage of sorts to the amazing Bal a Versailles. I’ve not tried any of Sarah Baker’s scents. Thanks for the draw! I’m in the US.

  • Wow this sounds heavenly!! I am so intrigued. So many irresistible references here… Liaisons Dangereuses, Bal a Versailles, Lolita, Rococo
    I am a huge fan of iris, and this salty waxy skanky twist sounds very alluring. Most of the iris perfumes in my collection are more distant and aloof.
    I have never tried a Sarah Baker fragrance and I am very curious now. Would love the chance to win this! I live in the Netherlands. Thank you, çafleurbon, for all the wonderful articles and opportunities to participate Xx

  • ll grhm I live in USA says:

    I have not tried a Sarah Baker fragrance before. This sounds like a bold fragrance with many facets and faces that appear and develop. This quote from the Lauren’s article makes this perfume sound enticing “The chameleon-like way it changes from time to time on the skin make it great fun to wear, and the dry-down is wonderful: iris-y, slightly salty, waxy, a bit skanky and almost rosy. I dare you to wear it to bed and dream.”

    I am in the USA

  • Va va va voom!

    Wow, this sounds amazingly sexy! Great review Lauryn! The smell of garden and sex, the garden, so seemingly innocent, and sex, so often cast as hedonist and dirty. The truth is the garden can be hedonistic and sex can be amazingly beautiful.

    This sounds like and absolute Tour de Force – Miguel has created an extremely sensual scent, one that I really must try. I have sampled several of the Sarah Baker fragrances and they all went on my buy a bottle list.

    I’m in the USA

  • The smell of the garden and sex sounds quite intriguing! I also love the description of an olfactory rock concert with huge white florals decked in a veil of aldehydes. Have not tried a Sarah Baker fragrance yet but thanks for the introduction to this brand. I live in the US.

  • Lauryn’s review was very informative and I enjoyed it thoroughly. She really knows her stuff when it comes to describing fragrances. I’ve never tried anything from this house before but I’d love to try it. Thanks for the great review and the great giveaway. Commenting from Kentucky USA.

  • Well I think we know when Sarah and Miguel get together something wild is gonna come out of it! There are so many i want to try from 4160 tuesdays also. IA, USA

  • Bryant Worley says:

    I appreciated that the opening explodes out the gate (“a thousand brilliant aldehydes swathed across a gardenia the size of a rococo wig.”) Then comes the “buxom white florals, followed by silvery iris; indolic jasmine; unruly civet; disheveled cumin; buxom, buttery tuberose; dark-browed musk and woods, etc. WHEW! Nuff said. Although she is not new to me, I have not tried a Sarah Baker fragrance . I live in Waldorf, MD, USA.

  • I have not tried a Sarah Baker fragrance yet even though Jungle Jezebel has caught my eye. Rules of Attraction is also on my ‘to try’-list after reading this review. Anything with a sensual, animalic undertone is likely a hit. I’m in EU

  • I have not tried a Sarah Baker fragrance, but this makes me wish I had. It sounds like something I would have worn in my youth, and I’m missing those scents lately. Thanks for the review. USA

  • Trinity33 says:

    Those are some sexy notes! Cumin as the introductory note is a challenge for me but the bounty of heady white flowers and the vanilla and leather makes me swoon. I’m fascinated that the iris plays such a prominent role throughout the development of the fragrance as I thought it might get lost amid the indelicate jasmine, gardenia and tuberose. It sounds like a decadent creation. Commenting from MD, USA.

  • Hashim Madani says:

    Never tried a Sarah Baker fragrance, but from Lauryn’s review, it seems Sarah and Miguel have created a VERY naughty fragrance. A new modern twist on a legendary classic like Bal a Versailles is always welcome. VA, USA.

  • To my shame, I do not know Bal a Versailles to have an idea where this duo between Miguel Matos and Sarah Baker draws inspiration from, but reading that this one is high on animalic notes, big florals, kind of sex-like, romantic, but not innocent fragrance, it surely makes me curious about it. I am in EU. Many thanks!

  • Valentina says:

    Beautiful flowers sprinkled with dangerous ones from place to place. This is love, my friends. You can swim in an ocean of wilderness and happiness and out of a sudden, get bite by a poisonous ivy. But it is still worth it. Beautiful idea, the classical paradigm of good accompanied by bad. I would definitely try this romantic dangerous Versailles! Unfortunately never had a chance to try a SB perfume. Valentine

  • I love anamalic scents and Miguel’s ability to use them in second to none in my opinion, that only solidified after lauryns review.
    I loved her perspective on this.

    I’ve tried all ofor Sarah’s line and both this and jungle jezabel are my favourites. Miguel’s work is always a hit with me.

    I’m from Ireland, EU

  • Wow! What a review Lauryn! Sounds like one sexy party in a bottle and isn’t your typical top/heart/base perfume So many notes weaving in and out. I’ve never tried anything g from Sarah Baker but this is at the top of my list. Thanks for the review and the giveaway. I’m in the US.

  • Didn’t know the brand previously this sounds like a sexy banger good for a summer party. Living in the EU

  • Notes: Cumin, grapefruit, aldehydes, iris, gardenia, jasmine, tuberose, neroli, civet, musk, leather, vanilla, woody notes, animalic notes. I am intrigued by the notes especially the animalic notes. chameleon-like way it changes from time to time on the skin make it great fun to wear, and the dry-down is wonderful: iris-y, slightly salty, waxy, a bit skanky and almost rosy. I dare you to wear it to bed and dream. A beautiful description by by Lauryn says it all really. Thanks a lot from the UK

  • But then, suddenly, an electric light snaps on, a guitar squeals into the amps, and the rest of the party tumbles in: indolic jasmine is partnered by unruly civet; disheveled cumin and buxom, buttery tuberose; dark-browed musk and woods. As the candles burn, and the heat rises, the room fills with sweat and flowers. Glove leather is there, watching coldly from the sidelines, iris by his side. Grabbing hold of a handful of flowers, thick vanilla syrup trickles as the night grows older. The air is heady and dense with the smell of the garden and sex. A beautiful piece by Lauryn I am intrigued by the animalic notes and leather. A brand that I am not familiar with but I am curious. Thanks a million from the United Kingdom

  • “The air is heady and dense with the smell of the garden and sex” — this makes me imagine a room where lovers are staying in a bed facing floor-to-ceiling windows that are open towards a garden in the dusk, the breeze carrying inside a thousand flowers’ scent. I have never tried a Sarah Baker fragrance so far. I’m in the EU.

  • Iuno Feronia says:

    Bal a Versailles is an all time classic and my favourite animalic perfume. I don’t know the perfumes of Sarah Baker yet but Rules of Attraction sounds great with all the White Flowers and aldehydes. Thanks for the review and the draw. I live in Europe.

  • I love the sexuality that Rules of Attraction oozes, it’s unapologetically sexy in every aspect. Splendid review which perfectly highlights all the glorious facets this work of olfactory art has to offer ! Would love to own on.

    Based in EU

  • This sounds like a party in a bottle, Versailles turned up to 11! I have yet to get my hands on any Sarah Baker to try but I’m dying to, her House seems to be pushing boundries of daring and that sounds like my kind of place. That and Miguel Matos is one of my fave perfumers. This reviews captures the spirit of the scent in the bottle and releases it to the worlds in words!
    Excellent! I’m in Ireland

  • What struck me is the note list and distinctive phases of the perfume as it’s worn. Not yet tried a Sarah Baker fragrance. US

  • Monica Beaton says:

    You had me at Versailles and the photo of love so joyous it made me cry. Beautifully written review of a wonderful partnership in fragrance. I live in Australia, so am not able to enter the draw.

  • Wow! This will be a great scent for wearing to parties or clubs when they reopen! I love how bold and yet complex this seems. I am in the US and have not tried any Sarah Baker scents.

  • I haven’t tried any of the creations from this line yet, so this would be a great start. I’m intrigued by the description of a fragrance that blends florals, sweet accents, and animalic notes along with leather and a dash of cumin. I am curious! I live in the USA.

  • wallygator88 says:

    Holy crap Lauryn, this was a really well written review. It’s hard to capture the charisma of a fragrance like this, but you’ve done a fantastic job.

    Just reading
    “Smack in the middle of the pavane, the animalic notes slink, sultry, almost quiet. But then, suddenly, an electric light snaps on, a guitar squeals into the amps, and the rest of the party tumbles in: indolic jasmine is partnered by unruly civet; disheveled cumin and buxom, buttery tuberose; dark-browed musk and woods. As the candles burn, and the heat rises, the room fills with sweat and flowers. Glove leather is there, watching coldly from the sidelines, iris by his side. Grabbing hold of a handful of flowers, thick vanilla syrup trickles as the night grows older. The air is heady and dense with the smell of the garden and sex.”

    got my heart rate going up.

    Cheers from WI, USA

  • You had me at Bal a Versaille but modern.I have not tried a Sarah Baker fragrance but this seems like the place to start. In Dallas US. Thank you.

  • This article made my heart rate rise and the windows steam up!
    Can’t wait to try this intoxicating, raunchy scent!

    Unfortunately, I have not tried a Sarah Baker fragrance before.
    I live in the EU (UK)

  • This sounds AMAZING! Sign me up for a modern Bal a Versailles! I’ve never tried a Sarah Baker fragrance. I am in the UK.

  • doveskylark says:

    I lapped Lauryn’s review up: words like brazen, buxom, unabashed, skanky, smouldering, glittery, reverberate….yes, please. I want in. I want an invitation to this ball.
    I haven’t tried anything from Sarah Baker yet.
    I live in the USA.

  • Camille Sheil says:

    Well, Rules of Attraction sounds amazing but Lauryn’s review is absolutely stunning! Again, entirely blown away simply by the review! This really should win an award! I feel suddenly as though I’ve been up all night, and a busy one at that!

    This fragrance theme, its audacity and aspirations, I haven’t seen.. I’ve been looking for a chameleon type fragrance and this sounds exactly like it! Whether I win or not, I want to sample this for sure!

    Thanks for the draw! Thanks for the review! Wow. I live in New Hampshire USA!

  • Shamrock1313 says:

    Sarah Baker offers some sexy fragrances that push boundaries in a great way & Rules of Attraction sounds right there as well.
    Very nice review by Lauryn.
    Thanks for the giveaway
    Pennsylvania USA

  • mleenstra says:

    I love Sarah Baker’s and Miguel Matos’ boldness. I wear Charade (and MM’s Tar) when I need a boost in confidence and Rules of Attraction sounds equally bold and naughty. I love a bit of heady white flowers smoothed over with some more earthy/animalic notes. I like Lauryn’s description of a Renaissance ball at Versailles; I want to be there! Marit

  • Sunny Chaudhary says:

    I have not tried a Sarah Baker fragrance before. This sounds like a bold fragrance with many facets and faces that appear and develop. This quote from the Lauren’s article makes this perfume sound enticing “The chameleon-like way it changes from time to time on the skin make it great fun to wear, and the dry-down is wonderful: iris-y, slightly salty, waxy, a bit skanky and almost rosy. I dare you to wear it to bed and dream.”

    I am in USA

  • redwheelbarrow says:

    This review was a blast! Ive never tried any of Sarah Baker’s fragrances but this one sounds like such a fun ride. The wafting between sex and innocence sounds like quite a fragrant experience. Adding this to my list to try! Thanks for the fun read and the draw. I’m in the US.

  • Had fun reading this review with the aldehydes, the flowers, the musks, and so on doing their parts in a raunchy olfactory ball. Rules of Attraction seems to be a wild orchestra of notes and definitely worth trying. Thanks for the review and the draw. Writing from the USA.

  • patrick_348 says:

    I have not tried a Sarah Baker fragrance, nor have I tried anything by Miguel Matos, but I am super eager to experience work by both of these figures. This sounds like a big, assertive fragrance, one with which at first I would go easy on the trigger. But it also sounds like it could be great fun to wear. I’m in the US, in NC.

  • chiaravirga says:

    Just wow! The review of this fragrance makes me want to blind buy it, I feel I would really love it! In my collection I only have “safe” fragrances, classy but not too daring or sexy; this would be the perfect fragrance for me to get out of the box! I’ve never tried anything from her brand, it would be lovely to win this and have the opportunity to try it.
    Thank you for the great review!
    I live in Italy, EU 🙂

  • Meeeooowrrr! This one sounds like fun fun fun! I love the fact that this one evolves in such a varied and distinct way. I’ve never tried anything from this house but I’d love to do so eventually. I live in the USA. Thanks for the giveaway!

  • JoeFrank9 says:

    Fortunately, I have tried Jungle Jezebel, so Im completely aware and hooked by both the concept of the house and the perfumer Miguel Matos, who is not afraid of using animalic nuances in his compositions. Here what stickes me eith curiosity is the duality of clean, soapyy, floral notes and the dark, sexy sweaty animalics in further drydown phases. Id love to win because that fragrance would suit me perfectly i think. Thanks for the draw. Im at the USA.

  • NiceVULady says:

    This is not a house that I have heard about until now, but it certainly seems to make a grand statement with Rules of Attraction. I like its boldness and the weaving in and out of notes. Thank you Lauryn for a most enlightening review and thank you also for a most generous draw. I’m in the USA

  • Symbian Pandora says:

    While I have not gotten around to sample any of Ms. Bakers line, I have been interested in this and Jungle Jezabel.
    I also have a bottle from Mr. Matos on the way, Scent of Fail 3.
    What a review, I want this even more after reading.
    Thanks to Lauren, Cafleurebon and Sarah Baker for the draw. I am in the USA

  • The fragrance being covert one minute and in your face the next makes it sound rather enchanting and sexy. Thank you Lauryn for the review and Sarah Baker for the giveaway. I’m in USA

  • Christos GX says:

    I have not tried these fragrances,but it sounds very interesting.The thing that captured me is that the description gives of to me the way that someone attracts(or seduce) another person,the different levels the attraction has(from its beggining to its end).
    Love from Greece

  • Wow, you know what it is about this from that description is it seems like it’s the sister of Jungle Jezzabelle, the one who had a better life, rolled in the higher echelons of society. But still has that raw animal sexuality. The dance is the same, the journey and development building upto that crescendo and then the soft sweet aftermath into the calm florals sweet and tender. Totally different fragrance by the end. I think Mr Matos is going to be my new addiction with all these creations that are journey’s in a bottle, either way i need to try myself this. Fantastic article I went through that journey in my mind. Thank you

  • One could almost see the ball room, except the participants are not human, but the notes in this perfume. Awesome visual 🙂
    Haven’t tried any of Sarah Baker’s fragrances, but one friend mention the only perfume she’d want is a Sarah Baker. Must be a reason, right? 🙂
    Europe here!

  • Wow, what a bomb! If this perfumes manages to get “Bal a Versailles running for her smelling salts”, it must be quite some thing!
    As a lover both of Bal a Versailles and white florals, as well as perpetually curious about sex bomb perfumes, this would be an awesome experience for me. The composition is indeed a compilation of all the sexy notes in the world: tuberose, cumin, leather, civet…what else could have gone in there to make it even more sensuous…? I really don’t know.
    I have never tried anything by Sarah Baker and I am in the EU. Thanks for such an exhillarating article and generous draw!

  • Jannick85 says:

    I’ve never tried any of Sarah Bakers fragrances, but this one sounds very intriguing with the flowers and anamalic notes.
    Greetings from Denmark

  • I have never tried a Sarah Baker perfume, but I do have Bal a Versailles and love it.

    Yes to cumin, animalics, musk and leather!! I must try this.

  • I have not tried any Sarah Baker perfumes, but I own Bal a Versailles

    YES to cumin, leather, and animalics! I must try this!

    I am in Oregon, USA

  • Lauryn’s review is very fun to read! I especially like this”indolic jasmine is partnered by unruly civet; disheveled cumin and buxom, buttery tuberose; dark-browed musk and woods. As the candles burn, and the heat rises, the room fills with sweat and flowers.” Rules of Attraction sounds beautiful. I have never tried any of Sarah Baker’s fragrances. I would love to. USA

  • Michael Prince says:

    Lauryn, great review of Sarah Baker Rules of Attraction. What strikes me about Rules of Attraction is the cat and mouse game of subtle floral notes transitioning back and forth with animalic notes to create something unique and mystifying. I have tried Jungle Jezebel by Sarah Baker. I am from the USA.

  • Aw yeah! I am an avid fan of Sarah Baker Perfumes! I wore Lace exclusively for a year and eventually branched out. Now I wear her whole collection, choosing each day according to internal and external weather. The scents continue to unfold for me which is why I’m so intrigued about Rules of Attraction! It’s all the lush paradoxical grandeur in this review that piques my curiosity and my knowledge of how Sarah Baker delivers every time that’s
    going to keep me up at night until I try this scent myself!

  • Wow this sounds like it transitions a lot on the skin which is interesting. Also it is kost definitely different from anything I have ever tried. I’ve been wanting to experience animalics but have yet to and I enjoy florals so this sounds lovely. I also like the concept behind it being at Versailles and enjoyed how the review transported me to different areas of it. I havent tried anything from Sarah Baker but have heard of and read about some Jungle Jezebel is another that is interesting and the bottle is wild! Thanks for the generous draw from CT USA.

  • Nicoleta Martinez says:

    I am so intrigued to try Matos’ take on Bal A Versailles. Writing from US.

  • I have never had a chance to try anything from this brand, but this fragrance sounds very interesting to me, I would very like to try it. Thank you for the chance. I live in Europe.

  • I am intrigued by the description of it moving between these large bold notes and subtle ones. I have never tried this house but it has been on my “sample list” for a while now. I miss sniffing and sampling in person. Thank you for the draw and the great review. I’m in the US.

  • I love (and own a bottle of) Bal a Versailles, and so am fascinated by Sarah Baker’s “homage” to that wonderful perfume. Other favorite animalics are SL Musc Koublai Khan and Papillon’s Salome. Thanks for this review and yet
    another generous draw!

    Writing from Washington DC