In Memorium: Tama Blough October 18, 1954 – January 9, 2015

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Tama Blough and Buster

Our dear friend and colleague, former Managing Editor Tama Blough passed away earlier this morning of cancer. She died at home with her loving family and cat Buster at her side  without suffering.  We will miss her fragrant awakenings, her thoughtful and insightful perfume reviews,  and the San Francisco Sniffs she hosted. Tama helped build awareness for West Coast and Indie Perfumery by introducing and championing emerging olfactive artists to a wider audience. Her trip to Milan to report on Esxence last March, was the first time she had left the country and meeting the perfumers she had only written about filled her with joy. It was her warm heart, generosity, kindness and talent that I will remember most. Tama was a quiltmaker, a photographer, an artist and a hula dancer. She loved make-up, farmers markets and Benedict Cumberbatch.   Cancer did not win, it never does; it can kill the body but not the spirit. To all her close friends and family, on behalf of ÇaFleureBon we offer our deepest condolences.  Tama lives on forever in our pages and in our hearts.  If I learn of any details about where to send flowers or cards to the family, I will update this post.

Michelyn Camen, Editor in Chief

January 12, 2014 update:  If you want to join some of Tama’s friends in celebrating her life, drop by Tigerlily Perfumery at 973 Valencia Street in San Francisco’s Mission District.

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  • Well said Michelyn. I am beyond sad but so very grateful to have had her friendship, even if it was just on FB.

  • So grateful to have some of her beautiful quilt works in my home! She was a truly beautiful and talented soul! She will indeed be missed.

  • My heart goes out to her friends and family. The beauty in her writings, quilts and photos will shine on and on.

  • May her soul be at peace! Sending love and light her way! May her onward journey be filled with bliss, where ever she may travel! My condolences to her family! Beautifully written Michelyn! One Love! Lets enjoy and be grateful for every day of our live! One Love! ❤️

  • Bruno Fazzolari says:

    A great loss to the fragrance community. I’ll miss her writing, warm heart, candor quilts, cat pics. Irreplaceable.

  • I met Tama in Milan earlier in 2014- she was so excited to be there, and we spoke for hours at the stand! She had a very beautiful energy and it was a touching memory for me. My heart is with her spirit and I wish her friends and family all the best.

  • I’m so sorry to hear this sad news. Tama, you are loved and will be missed. Your kind, bright, shining soul lives on always.

  • I am so sorry about Tama’s passing. I only knew Tama through this site and through perfume groups, but she made quite an impression. I remember seeing photos of some of her quilts; Tama was quite an artist. Such a beautiful person; I wish I knew her in person.

    My condolences to all who loved her.

  • I’m sure Tama would appreciate this warm memorium and hearing these kind words from the community. Knowing that her words are memorialized here on CaFleureBon is a comfort to all of us. Love you, Tama.

  • I am in shock that she passed so fast but so glad for Tama that she was able to stay in her home to the very end.
    My sincere condolences to her family, friends and colleagues.
    I’m proud to have one of Tama’s beautiful quilts in our family.
    Namaste

  • I am saddened to hear this news. I had hoped there would be more time for her. It’s good to know that she did not suffer and had her beloved Buster by her side. It’s a loss to everyone when a good person dies whether they are known to us or not.

  • I’m sorry to hear this. My deepest condolences to her friends and family. Her presence in the perfume community will surely be missed.

  • Thank you for honoring Tama and sharing this with us. I feel blessed to have known her through her words. I’m grateful that she died without pain and in peace. Peace be with you and my condolences to all those who loved her; it is the survivors who are suffering now. My thoughts are with you. <3

  • Tama left a mark on many readers here, and will continue to do so. My condolences to her family and friends. Rest in peace, Tama.

  • What a beautiful tribute for a beautiful person Michelyn. Tama will be missed much as she was loved, and that was a lot.

  • My sincere condolences to her family, friends and colleagues.
    Thank you for sharing this touching tribute for dear Tama with us. I know that we will all miss her and her lovely reviews.
    May her soul rest in peace…

  • Thank you for this post, Michelyn. I know so many of us will miss Tama dearly, but she has left a legacy of so much love.

  • Very well written, Tama will always be remembered. My sincere condolences to everyone who loved her.

  • So sad that it happened so quickly but I’m glad she at least got her wish to be surrounded by those who meant the most to her including her kitty. My sympathies to her friends and family.

  • So sorry to hear this. I watched The Imitation Game with Benedict in it last night and thought of her – but she was no imitation herself. My condolences to her friends and family.

  • Scentabulous says:

    Always surrounded with the whisper of an ethereal fragrance. You are remembered. Condolences to your family and loved ones. The Spirit is forever. Anne

  • Thank you Michelyn. I’ll miss her greatly as so many people in the fragrance community. It’s good to know that she was with Buster by her side. Rest in peace, Tama.

  • Dear Tama ,
    Walking at night in Paris, because it was so full of sadness inside.
    Our first and only meetings were in Esxence Milano last year, Your heart met mine, our saouls recognized. You loved Paris and France, You dreamed to come, and now Paris miss you…
    During the exhibition, You came every days to say to talk about the energies of stones, of perfumes, about dreams, sea, feelings and the lovely Life…
    The little stones don’t save lives, but we learn something from us…
    Walking at night in Paris, the sky is black, the atmosphere is gray, the moon smile and the stars shine.
    The fragrance is that of people who love.
    Love.
    Olivier

  • Thank you Tama for sharing your beautiful words and love of perfume with all of us. We miss you!

  • Thank you Michelyn for the words to express our feelings. Thank you Tama for the gifts you brought to our community and the beautiful prose you left us with. RIP dear one.

  • Such a sad way to start my day. My deepest condolences to her friends and family. I’m thankful she was able to stay with Buster until the end, I know it would be important to me to have my cat by my side until the end as well.

  • This is indeed sad news. I’m one of the many who knew Tama only online, but the loss feels very real. My sympathies go out to all of Tama’s loved ones (including Buster, of course).

  • Elizabeth T. says:

    She had so much to give to the world. What a loss. She will be missed. Thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends.

  • It sounds like she was an incredibly warm and lovely person. My deepest sympathies to her family, friends, and colleagues. I’m glad her last hours in this life were peaceful and that she was surrounded by loved ones as she passed into the next.

  • The news is sad but, as written by Michelyn, Tama’s spirit lives on.

    Today I shall wear San Francisco Rose.

  • This is such sad news. It was comforting to read that she was able to stay in her home the whole time, and had Buster by her side. My condolences to her family and friends. Rest in peace, Tama. My thoughts and prayers are out there for her. Tama will always be remembered through everything she shared with us online.

  • While I never had the opportunity to meet Tama in person, I could feel her bright and shining spirit in her words and see in beaming out to the world in photos of her. I feel very fortunate to have had at least a small connection to her through the medium of perfume. That same spirit will live on in our collective memories of her and her words.

  • Chris Schaefer says:

    I was so sorry to hear this. Tama was such a delight and I enjoyed so much connecting on facebook. RIP and she will be so missed.

  • Tama will be greatly missed. She was a truly beautiful and kind person, so full of talent and passion.
    It is hard to believe she is gone.
    I am happy she shared so much of herself with us in her art and writing.
    This is a wonderful tribute to her Michelyn.

  • I am so very sorry for your loss. Tama sounds like a wonderful person-quilters make the best friends. And quilt makers who love perfumes have to be the best of the best. I hope for peace for Tama’s family and friends.

    So sorry.

    Carole

  • susie frankel says:

    Sad news indeed. Tama was a star blazer giving the new scent artists a push into a wider world. She was a giving lady in so many ways. Yes, she will be missed and remembered. “Gone but not forgotten.” RIP

  • My deepest sympathies to her family, friends, colleagues, and fellow perfume lovers. “To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die.” ~ Thomas Campbell

    RIP Tama

  • Dearest Tama,

    The singers of Na Leo Nahenahe (SF’s Hawaiian chorus) will miss you. I send you deep gratitude for your beauty, the quilts you made and your voice. Rest in peace, dear heart. My condolences to your family.

    Lily

  • I knew Tama through two women’s art groups, first Bernal Women Artists Group (BWAG) and then Tangerine Arts. I had purchased two of her large acrylic paintings (“Inside” and “Untitled”), but now I need to find new homes for these wonderful artworks. I’m hoping someone on this site can help. I would love to give them to a friend or family member. Thank you.