If asked to recall the scent memories related to my father, I would describe all the smells most commonly related to any hardworking mechanic. Cracked leather boots, dried motor oil, and spilled gasoline. But there’s one very special olfactory memory about my father that will always hold a place in my heart. And that is the herbal antiseptic aroma of Barbasol shaving cream. I can best describe the scent as a blend of rosemary, lavender, and spicy powdery notes. Today, I think this particular fragrant cocktail is better known as your “classic barbershop” vibe. Whenever I smell it now, it takes me back to the age of 5. I will always remember watching my father shaving in the bathroom mirror, holding the cleverly trademarked red and blue barber pole designed can as the white scented foam squirted into the palm of his hand. To this impressionable young mind, this was the smell of being a man!
Fast forward, to this modern day in age. Dads do not need to ONLY smell like a brand of shaving cream from the 1920’s. It’s time to modernize your man! So blow off the Brut, push aside the Preferred Stock and leave the Canoe at the lake house. Which leaves an important question, how do you choose the right scent a father can wear any day? An even better question, how do you transition your father into niche fragrances making sure he doesn’t smell like every other dear ol’ dad? The answer, of course, depends on the man. Evaluate Pops in the most generic aspects of his life while contrasting his most personal tastes.
Does dad work from home, is he an outdoorsman, does he complain about being cooped up in a stuffy office all day, or is he living a fast pace in a hospital emergency room? How a particular scent is going to be presented can drastically change what will work. Using a few of the examples listed above, I would choose a daring scent for a work or stay at home dad. Public interaction will be somewhat minimal, so let the animal out! Don’t be afraid of the word Oud. No, it’s not some mythical character name in a ghost story, but rather it’s the use of mold infected wood resins found only in Southeast Asia native agar wood trees. The niche brand By Kilian has an absolutely fantastic line of oud based fragrances, including the ever popular, sweet yet masculine Amber Oud to the more “in your face” and natural interpretation of Oud found in their Pure Oud, and most recently released Extreme Oud.
But, if the trees are strictly for climbing, then maybe you would like to fight one element with another. Try wetting dads whistle with a fresh, easy to please aquatic type of scent. One of my favorites is done by the company called Creed. Most commonly recognized for their Cary Grant inspired fragrance called Green Irish Tweed. The most notable aquatic scent on the market since its release in 1995 is Millesime Imperial. Dubbed “MI” by its cult following, the fragrance recreates the crisp smell of a freshly opened watermelon laying in the sand on a hot day. Its unique use of marine notes, along with its added fruits, makes Creed’s MI a sure winner in any household. Just be sure to buy a big bottle, because Dad will not be the only one wearing this timeless aquatic.
Ok, what if Dad hates the beach? Does he hire a landscaper every year just to cut the lawn? If your father is a bit more formal or maybe forced to work in close quarters with other people, restricting his freedom of scented expression… don’t give up!
This does not mean fragrances are out of the question. What this does mean, is picking the right one just became that much more important.
Dad’s wafting scent trail suddenly needs to please all those around him including his cubicle co-workers, himself, and maybe even his boss. To do this, pick a fresh citrus note laden fragrance, or one that sits a bit closer to the skin of the wearer. A fragrance like Oolang Infini, from the house of Atelier Cologne is a perfect example of a more personal fragrance. Oolang Infini gets its name from the use of a distinct tea note found in the fragrance. Along with a manly tobacco blossom and blond leather accord, this 15% concentrated niche parfum is strong enough to stay by your side on any busy day, without forcing you to roll down the windows in the family SUV.
If Dad only wears fragrances on special events, then he may be better served with an elegant and classy scent designed for a night out. He can choose to go bold with the mesmerizing clash between cedar and sandalwood found in Montale’s Red Vetyver. Or maybe Dad is a bit more laid back, a product of the Age of Aquarius? Try a touch of Heeley Hippie Rose, to help nurture his nostalgic soul.
I could easily go on scenting imaginary dads in a multitude of scenarios, but in the end only you really know what Pops is all about. Plus you’re the one stuck sniffing him after a long day. Don’t be afraid to ditch the department store and go niche. Just be sure to remember one thing, the suit may not make the man, but the father will certainly make the fragrance.
As for me to this very day, I still keep a can of rarely used Barbasol shaving cream in my house. And whether I’m thinking about my father or just wanna feel like a kid again. I find myself holding that very same blue and red designed can of Barbasol in the bathroom mirror.
Happy Father’s Day, I love you, Dad.
Thanks to Atelier Cologne we have a 30mL petit flacon of Oolang Infini to give away to all our readers worldwide; plus thanks to EuroParfums we have a 50mL bottle of Montale Red Vetyver to give away our US readers only. To be eligible leave a comment on the smell you most associate with your father and if you have a preference put that in, too. The draw will end on June 17, 2013.
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–Edward Libassi a.k.a Frunkinator, Guest Contributor