ÇaFleureBon Profiles in American Perfumery: Joelle Nealy of Poesie Perfume +Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History Draw

Joelle Nealy of Poesie Perfume

Profile: I grew up in a family of strong Southern women.

Joelle's maternal grandmother, Patsy Ruth Parker, high school graduation

My maternal grandmother grew up dirt poor on a farm with no running water. With no education beyond high school, she went on to sell over $1 million in real estate and to buy herself her dream car — a Cadillac. When she retired, she went back to school to take writing classes, leaving us with simple but compelling stories about her life.

Joelle's paternal grandparents Beth & Harry Nealy

My paternal grandmother was a teacher who passed down her love of reading, and who — much to my chagrin — forced her grandchildren to do math worksheets during the long summer months away from school so that we wouldn’t forget what we’d learned in class. She never lost her love for adventure, surprising us all by leaving her home of forty years to move to Montana after falling in love with it while traveling.

Joelle Nealy  has a young girl

In my hometown in south Louisiana, parents were always sending their kids outside to play. I wanted to stay indoors, away from the humidity and mosquitos with a good book, but there was one long bike ride that I loved to take, the four mile round trip ride to a large drug store, where I would peruse the aisles of the beauty department. The unattainable rows of plastic shelled lipsticks and shiny powder compacts were a source of endless fascination.

Gardenia

But the part of my journey that evoked the most visceral feelings of joy and longing was the fragrance area, where I religiously inhaled the intoxicating tuberose/gardenia notes of Coty Sand & Sable.

South Louisiana Camellia and Spanish moss

I’d pedal home happily, dreaming of the day I’d be grown up enough to wear such a scent.

Joelle's mom Donna Nealy, Homecoming

The most hallowed shrine to glamour in my home as a kid was my mother’s vanity table, a trademark of the quintessential Southern woman. Its glass top supported a crowd of brushes and gold capped bottles, crystal dishes that held cosmetics, and a mirror that could show you your face in daylight or candlelight. Her collection of perfumes was a study in contrast. The dark juice of Tabu, a dangerous spicy civet bomb — my dad’s choice for my mom. And its angelic counterpart, L’Air du Temps with its intertwined doves, a scent of untouchable ladylike refinement — my mother’s choice for herself. I was captivated even then by the idea that you could create a persona of your choosing with a different lipstick color or a fragrance.

Poesie Perfumes

The road from loving perfume to creating it was a long and winding one that now feels as inevitable as putting one foot in front of the other. As I grew up, I graduated from Coty Sand & Sable to seek out vintage perfumes like Piguet Bandit. In my circle of friends, I was the one who did makeup for special occasions, who gave brutally honest fashion advice, and who always wore perfume. When a friend gave me a set of perfume oils for designing your own fragrance, it unveiled new possibilities for my love of scent. Soon I had a new obsession, scouring the internet for everything I could read about perfumery, ordering aromachemicals, absolutes and essential oils, and spending hours with my scent strips smelling, writing down my thoughts, experimenting. I came home from long days at my job and was immediately reenergized by the potential inherent in those little bottles. Whether through naiveté or confidence, I trusted my nose enough to share my favorite creations with friends. Their positive response emboldened me to open my online store in 2015, while I continued to work full-time at a nonprofit organization. For more than a year, I spent my days working on behalf of artisans in developing countries and my nights developing as an artisan myself. Eventually I realized that although my passion for social justice was still in full force, I was weary of balancing the two jobs, and I was ready to take the next step.  The bold women I knew and admired were the ones who followed their passions, who did more than think and talk, who took action. As scary as it was to leave the comfortable safety of my career where I was surrounded by supportive, like-minded people and knew what I was doing, in 2016 I quit my job to focus on Poesie full-time. In doing this, I found not only the creative fulfillment I sought, but another community of collaborators, mentors, and friends.

Testing new scents

On American Perfumery: Being an American perfumer operating an independent business takes passion and a willingness to pursue your obsession. The absence of corporate structure or institutionalized learning makes it feel like a bit of a freefall, but also like you can let your own intuition take you wherever it may. You have no one to please but yourself and your customers, and you can take them with you on a riotous journey, introducing them to personal adventures in fragrance that open up a whole world beyond the department store perfume counter.

Amelia Earhart with Bi-Plane June 14, 1928

Poesie fragrances are inspired by art and history, filtered through the perspective of iconic women who have navigated the world with audacity and aplomb, boldly creating their own paths.

Dolly Parton

Favorite American Artist: Although it might be somewhat unexpected from someone whose most recent collection was inspired by Charlotte Brontë’s Jane Eyre, I have to say Dolly Parton is one of my favorite American artists. She embodies the irrepressible Southern glamour that rejects minimalism and embraces a “more is more” philosophy, with a wig for whichever hairstyle she fancies in the moment and an unabashed love for lipstick. But underneath those eyelashes and rhinestones is a trailblazing woman who has composed over 3,000 songs, and who came from nothing to become one of the best-selling recording artists of all time. She did it all with her sheer talent and fearless perseverance. Dolly is not afraid to be herself — or anyone else she wants to be.

Joelle Nealy, Perfumer and Founder of Poesie Perfume

Editor’s Note: “Well-behaved women seldom make history”-Joelle

Joelle has an extensive scent catalog so check out Miss  Behave, her Jayne Eyre Thornwood Collection or her Core Collection

Thanks to Poesie Perfume, we have two fantastic draws for two registered readers (you must be registered). One draw will be offered to a US reader and an identical draw offered to a reader anywhere in the world: each winner will receive three 5 ml perfume oils of their choice. To be eligible please leave a comment with what you found fascinating about Joelle’s path to perfumery, where you live and which three Poesie fragrances appeals to you most. What iconic woman is your heroine?  Draw ends November 10, 2017

Joelle is our 129th American Perfumer in this series and I just adored this !!!-MC

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26 comments

  • For me Sin city and Madchenland notes are on top. I would love to try these. Joelle’s power and confidence to leave the job for a new start and a true passion, is such an amazing and inspiring vibe for anyone, a lot of positive things.

  • The fact that one of my favorite perfumes, Sand and Sable, created an appreciation and love of perfume within Joelle is what fascinated me about this post. There are so many offerings that intrigue me but since I must choose three they are Damn Fine, PNW and Innocence. I reside in the USA. Joelle is my new perfumer heroine!

  • I live in the South and have been associated with it for many years, although I am not a Southerner. I like the sense of the strong female figures as influences. Having to pick three is impossible, but I liked Montgomery, Messe de Minuit (since its seasonal, I get to pick another), Luxor, and Thornfield. I love the idea of having scents for layering particularly Sacred and Wisp. Thanks so much for the draw. I leave in the USA.

  • okaysellers says:

    aww, this is so cool! and it’s just the inspiration i needed, too — i’m also trying to open my own business, and the freefall is terrifying. amazing how you can feel so over traditional institutions but still be totally reliant on them 🙂

    hearing about tabu was a blast from the past — my mother wore tabu!

    i’ve been interested in no bird, strange unearthly things (mushroom?! !!!), and myself invisible.

    (also, i’m in the US)

  • Joelle is an inspiration to me. It was bold of her to leave her job to pursue her passion. I’ve visited Louisiana once (New Orleans specifically) and fell in love with the south. I may return as a resident one day if the stars align correctly. As of now I’m a Californian (US resident) born and raised. I identify strongly with her respect for Dolly Parton. I think Dolly Parton is a wonderful icon and a purveyor of kindness and I love her country music. Any fan of Dolly’s is a friend of mine. After reading the notes of her perfumes, I find myself drawn to Messe de Minuit, Circe, imperiled Maiden and more but I think I may have surpassed my limit! I’ve never tried Poesie perfumes! Winning some perfume would be the perfect way to experience them for the first time, wouldn’t it? 🙂 Thanks for the draw!!

  • I really enjoyed Joelle’s story, it reminded me of my own childhood trying to mix my own cosmetics and make my own perfume unsuccessfully with baby powder and water ! my favorite Poesie scents are Sir and Tiny phantom. I’ve never gotten married but if I did I think Tiny Phantom would be a perfect choice. It reminds me of falling in love in Springtime. I’m dying to try A Thousand Warriors and Code name Madeline. I live in the USA !

  • What a fun read!! I love the family tidbits. Reminded me some of my family. We were always sent outside to play. I wonder what kind of memories the future generations will have, kinda sad. I would love to win Code Name Madeleine, Sacred and Patina. The Sixties Salad sure gave me memories, but not sure if I want to smell like that old school salad. My female icon would be Georgia O’Keefe. Thanks for the draw.

  • I love the inspirations for Poesie. I agree with Joelle about being fascinated that cosmetics can drape us in a whole new persona. That said, I would love to try on Damn Fine, Innocence, and Codename Madeleine.

    I reside in the US. Hedy Lemarr is my heroine. If you aren’t familiar, she was an actress who ditched her nazi husband, joined the Allies, and invented frequency hopping.

    Thanks for the draw!

  • I love that Joelle has really embodied what being a strong person should be: someone willing to take risks, and pursue your dreams. It reflects on the themes she picks for her scents, and the quality with which she delivers them. I relate to her in this sense, since I am from a region (southeast asia) where women have only recently (<10 years) gotten involved in fields which are usually male-dominated. I'm an IC design engineer myself (still very male dominated), so this really resonates with me.

  • My fave part of Joelle’s journey is the heart of it beginning with her moms vanity. I feel like that is so true for many of us and those nostalgic smells from childhood can so wonderfully come back to us in fragrance, especially indie brands. I would like to try honestly the whole catalogue of Poesie scents eventually. If I Haddad to pick probably Marlowe, just like heaven, a fine warrior.

  • I’m so inspired by Joelle’s leap of faith – quitting her job must have been simultaneously terrifying and exhilarating. I wish her so much success! I’m most interested in Secret Boyfriend, Innocence, and the Contessa. I’m in the USA.

  • Joelle’s story is so inspiring! I can relate to a lot of what she writes here. I’m also from the south (born in GA, mom from LA), and the aesthetic of the photos here is so spot on to my childhood. One of my favorite things about perfumes is the complex memories and emotions different scents can evoke, so I find it particularly cool that Joelle draws on her love of literature and art as well to create her perfumes. The scents Strange Little Girl, White House Garden, and Innocence sound amazing! I’m living in the US.

  • I very love everything in Joelle’s path to perfumery. That is a wonderful thing that someones hobby becomes their job. It is nearly impossible to chose only three among these amazing creations. But I think, Damn Fine, Echo and Imperiled Maiden sounds the most intriguing to me. Thank you very much for the chance. I live in Europe.

  • Iuno Feronia says:

    Joelle has started very Young loving all the scented and “girlie” Things and continued till now. because of this she has a great ability for scents and compositions.

    Thanks for the draw, I live in the EU.

  • What an inspiring story! I’m so impressed that Joelle took the leap and turned her dream into her career. It sounds like she comes from a long line of truly awesome ladies, so it’s no wonder that she’s living her best life too. Her scent catalog looks great – I’m most interested in Reve de Neige, The Contessa, and Innocence. I’m in the US.

  • pirate-of-penance says:

    The women in Joelle’s family, and her passion for social justice (I love her choices for the Miss, Behave! collection) are all incredibly special. Dolly Parton is also a shining beacon of community building, and glamour. I am in the US and I have been eying Codename Madeleine, Damn Fine, and Marble Kiss.

  • Loved how she came from a line of strong, independent women. It was also quite a treat reading through Joelle’s scent catalog! I especially liked Marble Kiss, but also Montgomery, and Codename Madeleine. The iconic woman who is a heroine of mine is Grace O’Malley, a fascinating Irish pirate I learned of while reading my daughters the book ‘Good Night Stories for Rebel Girls’. US. Thanks for the great draw!

  • I realy enjoyed Joelle’s story- about her grandparents, about her childhood, her first impressions from her mother perfumes- Tabu and L’Air du Temps Nina Ricci. Her first steps in perfumery, diligence, hard work are exemplar.
    I’m most interested in Sin City , Luxor and Sir,
    From Armenia.

  • I find it inspiring that Joelle quit her job to follow her dreams. I would love to try Sacred, Midnight Revel and Secred Boyfriend.
    Thank you Joelle and Cafleurebon for this lovely draw. I live in EU, Netherlands.

  • doveskylark says:

    This is definitely the most inspiring and bursting-full-of-life profile I have read. Is Joelle my soul sister? I recently found an old bottle of Bandit. I also love Dolly Parton. And I agree so much that having one’s own business is a free-fall at times. The Poesie Perfume website is a masterpiece!
    I’d choose A Thousand Warriors, Worth a Stare, and Sir.
    I live in the USA.

  • I’m on her website and love the choices of fragrances! I’d love to try Lovelorn Wind, Damn Fine, Sacred, Secret Boyfriend, A Thousand Warriors, – on my gosh, I could go on and on!
    I live in the US

  • Like Joelle, one of my favorite things to do when I was young was to look at all the beautiful fragrances in the drugstore and smell as much as possible. So many things on her website look interesting, but I would pick Codename Madeleine, Opening Chapter, and Thornfield if I should be so lucky to win. Thank you and I’m in the US.

  • As a Southern woman ( who grew up on a farm with no running water or electricity!) I can only say… you go, girl! For all her faults and tragedies, there is no other region in the country that can inspire like the South.

    I’m afraid my viburnums died in this summer’s drought, so Montgomery sounds like something in my future, as do Lovelorn Wind and Worth a Stare!

  • I fell in love hard with Versailles and Tiny Phantom. Truth be told, I fell in love with the whole concept of Joelle’s company first. I love that her “brand” is beautiful literature, beloved characters, and faraway destinations. Images from her website conjure thoughts of cuddling up by a fireplace with my cashmere socks, a cup of herbal tea, and my gray cat, with a stack of vintage books lying next to me.

    I also love that Joelle’s products are 100% handmade in small batches and that they are vegan and cruelty-free. I further love that this is a woman-run small business.

    I reached out to Joelle on social media because I was dying to know who the nose and the brand-generator were behind the business. I found Joelle to be warm and personable, further intriguing me with the whole idea of her company. She then proceeded to convince me that I needed to give her “Madar” fragrance another shot. I went from thinking it was “OK” to falling completely in love with the scent, to the degree that I now crave its smell!

    Add to all of this the fact that her customer service is second to none, AND the fact that her prices are phenomenal for such a quality product, and you have a recipe for success. Joelle, I wish you the best of success in your business, and please know that you can count on me for support, for honest reviews, for spreading the word of your products, or whatever you need. You are one impressive entrepreneur and I can’t wait to see where this ride is going to take you!

  • Oops, I totally forgot to add that the next 3 fragrances I’d love to try are Infamous, Full Moon at the Temple, and Marlowe.

    As for my heroine, she has always been Sojourner Truth. I grew up in Texas (now living in the Salt Lake City, Utah area) and have heard about Ms. Sojourner since I was a girl. The courage and bravery exhibited by her were evident as she dedicated her life to causes both wide and deep to champion human freedoms.

    …and I just noticed that the drawing was held 4 years ago. Still happy to talk about the character of Sojourner Truth. 🙂