ÇaFleureBon Fragrant Awakenings: Maison Mona di Orio Cuir (Mona Di Orio) 2010 + Finding Light in Darkness Draw

Skeletal Caged, Nina Danielska, 2013

“I am made and remade continually. Different people draw different words from me“. Virginia Woolf.

So it is with Fragrance welded to Skin. Reach into definitions of Awakening and words such as engender, trigger, inspire, kindle, fire and rouse can be found, is it a single moment? Sometimes.  On a very personal level I am constantly being awakened, shedding a skin and relishing the feel of the new one as it stretches over me, taut and fresh.  The quest for fragrance is no exception.

  Fabio Interra, 3 Rivers Deep

Time as a child of the 1960’s in the elegant company of my maternal grandmother, I was enveloped by Lanvin and Lubin and classic Dior, highly respected French houses of longstanding.  Lanvin Arpege and Lubins Idole, fragrance foundations along with a fragranced garden full of roses, lilac, and lily of the valley.  I inhaled deeply all year long, aware of the changing seasons from a change in the fragrance around me even before visible signs of season change, this nose accompanies me now  as a Winemaker and a devout Perfumista.

 Ma Griffe, Carven, vintage advertisement, 1969

Ma Griffe, 1946, Carven, perfumer Jean Carles, was a first personal gift for a young girl yet in her pre-teen years. I devoured it and was captured by thoughts of France and Paris, immaculate, understated, stylish French women who dallied by day and were another force all together at night. Subsequent reading of reviews of this fragrance do not surprise me when they refer to it as bright and edgy, soft and comforting and yet slightly dangerous, all aspects of fragrance that draw me. Firm loyalties to Yves St Laurent fragrances defined my teenage years and early twenties, embracing the feminism that had emerged from the sexual revolution of the preceding decade. 

Vogue, 1977

Along line of feminist aristocracy had graced my maternal line, from the Suffragette movement to the marches of the late sixties and early seventies. Rive Gauche, 1970, and the original formula of Opium 1977, spoke of an independence and of a woman who was a force in the world.  Avant Garde, the left bank and the artistic, intellectual, bohemian. Certain themes already prevalent in my preferences.

Mona Di Orio 2011 (courtesy of Mona di Orio)

Early 2012 and the exquisite old town of Nice became my home  I read an article revealing the story of an exceptional woman, who had sadly passed away only a few months before. Mona di Orio, a pupil of Edmond Roudnitska, Mona created exquisite, precise, fluid, alchemical compositions, infusing traditional fragrance with an interplay of a clarity and that new skin I spoke of earlier, revisioning harmonic compositions that stripped us of preconceived notions of the components.I began to find the heart of myself, the Francophile who had devoured all things French as a young woman, inhabiting and discovering that city, and walking her streets, a la Flaneur. 

It gave me relief and peace from what was a difficult personal situation.  In turn, discovering Mona’s Nombres d Or collection, where immediately I was drawn to 3-4 fragrances, the one however that delivered me and inspired me to begin inquisitive exploration of artisan perfumery was Cuir.

Shadows and Dust, Andi Garbi, Composer and Visual Artist

 A curling, smoky, pungent leather that is so much more, fine tooled with peaty, animalic instincts, heated leather of ridden saddles and warm animal coat, conjuring smouldering dampness and sensuous havoc.  Ash from the demise of a thousand books upon the pyre. There is nothing hidden or murky here, it’s clear and direct and speaks to me of the piercing, balance of light and dark for which she has become well known. Reminding me that in light is dark and in darkness is light.

Siena Cathedral, 2016,  (D Seith-Fyr)

Cuir composed of Cardamom, Absinthe, Juniper, Leather, Cade, Castoreum and Resinoid Opoponax  rises off the skin as a sacrilegious paradox.  Wild and devout, the consummate solitude in the rear of the Cathedral amongst the lingering scent of incense ash and spluttered wax, a threshold that is a liminal space urging you to independence and strength yet unfolding to something of simple, elegant surrender.  Simultaneously it is pristine, glass water, impinged upon by cedar, birch, larch and poplar bud, taking an inhalation of pure, crisp, oxygen rich air infusing me with purpose, a cathedral in another guise.

Ash and Fire, (D Seith-Fyr) 2015

A lonely time in my life was suddenly enlivened by the igniting of that passion for fragrance I had held all along yet for years had been subsumed.  A dry-down of extended longevity yields at last to richness, a scent creamy and full of aromatic warmth like a good Highland Single Malt.

Cuir and Mona di Orio marked a returning, a remembering of my inner resources, solitary and strong.

Jeroen Oude Sogtoen (2016)

I cannot remember my time on the Cote D’Azur without the memory of Mona di Orio and it is her body of work and my discoveries at that time which prevail and inspire me. A Legacy continued by her partner, Jeroen Oude Sogtoen, Fredrik Dalman and Maison Mona di Orio.

–Danu Seith-Fyr, Contributor

Disclosure: Samples my own collection, opinions my own.

Thanks to the generosity of Maison Mona di Orio we have a 75 ml bottle of Mona di Orio Cuir for a registered reader anywhere in the world. To be eligible please leave a comment with what you enjoyed about Danu’s Fragrant Awakening, if fragrance was light in the darkness at a difficult time in your life, where you live, and if you have a favorite Mona di Orio Perfume. If you would like your to count twice PLEASE LIKE CAFLEUREBON FRAGRANT AWAKENINGS ON FACEBOOK HERE. Draw closes 2/2/2017

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49 comments

  • I love the way hits described as the awakening- as a new skin and the changes that occur is like building on this, the dreams of France and Paris-the elegant women- it sounds like a suitcase that one keeps adding to, never too full to be cluttered but refining itself as time moves on. I loved reading about the influential women in this journey. A beautiful tale.
    Fragrance has been light for me- making solid perfumes which I do kept me somewhat sane in a dark period. One can get lost in fragrance in the nicest possible way 🙂 Mona is such a legend- never been in the right place at the right time to try the creations I’m afraid and hope someday I will- I live currently in New Zealand. eloquent review- thank you

  • What fascinates me is the throwaway line that says Danu is a winemaker. What wine and where? Is smelling wine like smelling perfume? Do the skills transfer?

  • A new skin is such a awesome term because fragrance is just that. It is like adding a new sensual layer of skin on. I live in New York!

  • How Danu describes the opening of Cuir just takes me to that place – in the dark of night, maybe in the days where burning of sacrilegious books was popular, and there is destruction but there is also light, and a mix of smells exactly how Danu says. Fragrances that remind me of happier times do uplift my soul – usually ones that I wore on warm summer days enjoying sunshine with family. That is how fragrance is light to me. I am in VA, USA and have never tried a Mona di Orio perfume.

  • I enjoyed this article because it was something different. In a really dark personal moment fragrance usually overloads my senses. Violette Fumee is an MdO I really like.
    USA

  • Thank you for an interesting article. Yes, there are times that fragrance is very comforting to me…particularly when I am experiencing short bouts of insomnia. If I suspicion it is going to be ‘one of those nights’ I wear something that tells me a story, very complex with a distinct beginning, middle and end. If I am lucky, I don’t get to experience the dry-down! I have not experienced any of Mona di Orio’s perfumes but would love to try one, particularly Cuir. I am in the US.

  • I loved the imagery of shedding one’s old skin to reveal a beautiful new one. We do that so many times throughout life, moving from one life to the next and changing accordingly. I am a big fan of Mona di Orio, and would love to win the Cuir! Thanks for the draw.

  • acquiredtaste says:

    I love this sentence the most in this article: “A lonely time in my life was suddenly enlivened by the igniting of that passion for fragrance I had held all along yet for years had been subsumed.”

    Fragrance is certainly a light in the darkness to me. I’m suffering from depression and fragrances calm me down, some transport me to another world which works as escapism. Having this perfume hobby gives me a reason to live as there are so many perfumes in the world that I want to explore!

    I live in Malaysia. I don’t have a favourite Mona di Orio perfume as I’ve never tried any perfumes from them.

  • cardinalmind says:

    Danu’s description of his fragrant journey was really interesting. It was wildly exotic but at the same time close to me, and I haven’t been there at all!It feels more like a recollection from a friend rather than a story readily available on the Internet.

    My current light is Versace pour homme, a light refreshing scent for someone looking for solace. I haven’t tried any Mona di Orio perfume since they were unavailable in the Philippines. I currently live in California but is from the Philippines.

  • Just the other day I was thinking about liminality in perfume and how most of the perfumes I love are liminal in some way. So just the mention of liminality in relation to perfume makes me really happy! MdO Cuir is definitely one of those perfumes that I think have a liminal tension. There is indeed both light and darkness in it, sacred and taboo, wildness and elegance combined! I love it so much! Cuir was a love at first sniff for me… but that was four years ago and I still don’t have a bottle of it! Desperately want to own it, so fingers crossed, maybe I’ll get lucky in this draw! I’m in Finland.

  • Mmmmm, Mona has so many great fragrances – Vanille, Tubereuse, Oud/Oud Osmanthus, and of course Cuir. It is hard to have hard times, especially when we come from strong women. They probably had hard times too, they just never felt able to express it. I hope, in the end, Nice and the Coe d’Azur were good to you.

  • fazalcheema says:

    When I saw that MaGriffe ad, I instantly knew which perfume has been mentioned. I fell in love with Ma Griffe vintage around 2011 or so, first inspired to try it after getting to know Jean Carles inspiring story behind Ma Griffe. I also have Mona Di Orio’s Original Cuir which is quite a hardcore creation. I heard nee Cuir is a little easier and I am intrigued by it. Thanks a lot for the draw. My favorite Mona Di Orio is Cuir. I am in the US.

  • My infatuation with fragrance is relatively recent, but I’ve always been attached to scent and its ability to conjure memories. I haven’t tried any Mona di Orio perfumes yet, but Cuir has a cardamom note, which I’ve learned is one of my favourite things in the whole world. I live in Canada.

  • Very interesting tale and sensitive approach to fragrances.
    “Reminding me that in light is dark and in darkness is light.” This sentence truly resonates for me, particularly applied to fragrances. I have also always been a big fan of Chiaroscuro in paintings, and love scents with an edge.
    I would love to test more Mona di Orio scents, but so far I have really enjoyed Vanille (gourmand but dark and boozy) and Cuir (powerful and so fierce!).
    I live in France, EU.

  • I enjoyed the reading and I’m glad that Danu found help from Mona’s perfume to get out of his personal problems.
    I’ve been reading this blog for a good while now and perhaps this is the most touching story, because my love for fragrances came from a personal tragedy. After my father passed away I’ve found an escape in fragrances and that is when my journey begun. I was trying to fill a void and my passion for perfume was born. I did have perfumes before, but 2-3 at a time and did provide perfume to my father as well, occasionally. Now I have about 25 perfumes and I sometimes think on the fact that if he’s still be with us, he’ll enjoy to smell my collection. I still have a drop left from his last bottle which was Boss Selection and I sometimes smell it and reminds me of him.
    I did test a few of Mona’s perfumes and my favorites are Cuir and Vetyver. Thanks for the article and the draw, I’m in the EU.

  • I often find comfort in fragrances which remind me of home or someone close to me. It sometimes work like real magic.
    Thank you for so interesting read. I’d love to win Cuir because I like many od Mona di Orio fragrances, my favorite is Violette Fumee. I live in Norway.

  • Cuir is the only Mona di Orio perfume that I dislike (I love : Nuit noire, Lux, Amyitis, Oiro, Vanille, Vétyver, Oudh Osmanthus, Musc).

    But I know someone who loves it, so if I win, I will give this great gift !

    I’m in the EU. Thanks again for the draw !

  • Hikmat Sher Afridi says:

    Thanks for the article. Well, it smells good, brings comfort & memories and boost mood. And I enjoy smelling magical. Mona di Orio mentored by Edmond Roudnitska was about to bloom in perfumery but life does not have faith. I have lonely perfume Mona di Orio OIRO and I really enjoy wearing it. Mona di Orio CUIR is indeed on my wantlist & would love to win.
    Thanks to the generosity of Maison Mona di Orio and Cafleurebon for the opportunity to participate in the draw.
    ALREADY LIKED THE CAFLEUREBON FRAGRANT AWAKENINGS ON FACEBOOK.
    Peshawar, Pakistan

  • Wonderful review. I like so many things about the article. In my dark periods I generally do not wear fragrances. But I agree that fragrances can make better our mood. And of course I already liked that facebook profile. Thank you for the draw. I live in Europe.

  • I enjoyed reading about Cuir and that is the one I would most like.The notes are very me.I have one Mona di Oro but hate using it because I fear I won’t be able to get it again.All I know is that it was made for an ancient Queen who longed for the smell of home.Thank-you I have my fingers crossed.

  • A beautifully written review. I suppose vintage Opium helped me through my mother’s passing. It was her signature scent and having that scent around me reminded me of her. I’ve only tried Myrrh Casati of this house and liked it. Thanks for the draw. I live in the USA.

  • Zamar Mofti says:

    “There is nothing hidden or murky here”. I like it, because quality should speak to you not hidden or secret notes like some perfumeries do that. Vanille is the master piece that I tried before. Happy to smell Cuir too. Live in Houston, US.

  • doveskylark says:

    I enjoyed reading about the fragrances that shaped Danu’s life. The description of Cuir was so opulent and evocative. I liked her phrase “sensuous havoc..”
    Having fragrances as a hobby helps me when I find myself feeling depressed (unfortunately more and more these days). This hobby has so much that gives me joy (even if just temporarily): searching for vintage fragrances at street fairs, reading blogs and books, experimenting with different notes, spraying my leathers and feeling bold, ready to face the night even though I’m a wreck inside.
    My favorite Mona di Oria is Nuit Noire.
    i live in the USA. I liked the Fragrant Awakenings FB page.

  • I love the review, especially the quote from Virginia Woolf: “I am made and remade continually. Different people draw different words from me”. I could say the same about fragrances. Some of them make me feel stronger, more outgoing, sociable… some increase the desire for being alone. I also have several fragrances to wear at work, where I talk a lot and I need to feel eloquent.
    My favorite Mona di Orio is Violette Fumee. I liked the Facebook profile. Thank you for the draw.

    (EU)

  • Wow, Cuir is my absolutely favorite perfume by Mona di Orio and I really hope I will be lucky in this draw!
    I am very attached to scents that remind me of happy moments in my life, they help me to survive sad and difficult days. Gucci Envy and Rochas Alchimie are among such scents. Now, since they are both discontinued, I am looking for their successors.
    I already liked FB profile. Thank you for the draw. I live in Germany, EU.

  • concertslover says:

    No wonder I find this house intriguing when some of the early influences. In the Cuir, I do appreciate the smoky toasted appeal along with the hint of absinthe which I am sure contains a hint of black licorice to some extent from the anise. Considering the late winter we are having, it is a perfect time to add a new frag.

    From USA

  • I love reading vivid and evocative reviews like this one: “A curling, smoky, pungent leather that is so much more, fine tooled with peaty, animalic instincts, heated leather of ridden saddles and warm animal coat, conjuring smouldering dampness and sensuous havoc. Ash from the demise of a thousand books upon the pyre. There is nothing hidden or murky here, it’s clear and direct and speaks to me of the piercing, balance of light and dark for which she has become well known. Reminding me that in light is dark and in darkness is light…”
    My scented light in the dark is a simple, humble green tea single note EDT. It calms me down immediately.
    My favorite fragrance by MdO is Musc. Thank you for the draw. I live in the EU and I liked CFB Fragrant Awakenings page.

  • I had never seen a photo of Mona before, what a beautiful woman. Such a loss. My favorite in her line is Myrrh Casati. There is never a day that I am without fragrance. It lifts me on the most mundane of days and also during times of sadness. Cuir sounds beautiful, but something my husband might also like to borrow. I shall hide it if I am lucky enough to win. Thanks for the draw. I live in the U.S.

  • Finding oneself through a difficult time yes I had a bottle of my fathers Dior homme after he passed away
    I enjoyed the beautiful writing and the fragrances Danu named from the past
    My favorite is Violette Fumee and I live in Canada

  • It is obvious that Danu is passionate about Mona di Orio perfumes and Cuir in particular. This comes through in the review and makes me want to try it even more. The cardamom-leather combination sounds divine. I’ve been fascinated by Mona di Orio since first reading a review, but I haven’t been lucky enough to find one to sample. Fragrance always lifts my moods, so I would say it has helped me through dark times.. I live in Canada, thank you.

  • The description reminds me of the stories having the mythical creatures especially the Phoenix. It is stated that it marks light and darkness all in one. Epitome of danger yet a drop of its tear is supposed to treat the deadliest of wounds, showing its kind heart.

    Hope to get to try this.
    USA.

  • Iuno Feronia says:

    Very poetic. I also love the perfumes of Mona di Orio, especially OUDH OSMANTHUS.

    Thanks for the draw, I live in the EU.

  • Who among us has not used fragrance as a comfort and even a sort of unseen companion in difficult times, a subtle something that is always a part of our awareness. I love leather scents and am in the US. Thank you for the draw.

  • I agree that the right scent can act as a light in the darkness and I liked the review very much. I am a fan of leather perfumes and I am very curious about Cuir.
    My favorite scent from Mona di Orio is Nuit Noire. Thank you for the draw, I am in the EU.

  • cinnamon tree says:

    Well, I certainly find comfort in many fragrances, especially vintage ones which my mother used to wear when I was little (I loved Bourjois Soir de Paris!), but I think Cuir sounds too oud and sexy to fall into this category! “A curling, smoky, pungent leather that is so much more, fine tooled with peaty, animalic instincts, heated leather of ridden saddles and warm animal coat, conjuring smouldering dampness and sensuous havoc”. But I would love to win it anyway, it sounds so tempting… My favorite Mona di Orio is Musk. I live in Europe. I liked Fb page. Thanks for the draw and for so interesting article 🙂

  • I can relate to the description of Ma Griffe, my mother wore it for years and I associate it with seeing her dressed up for a cocktail party.
    If I know the day is going to be tough, I always choose a perfume (before my outfit!) to give me fortitude.
    My favourite Mona di Orio so far is Luxe, and I live in Australia

  • Great review. I have never tried Mona di Orio perfume.

    Thanks for the chance. Hello from Canada

  • Elizabeth T. says:

    Fragrance is an extra layer of warmth on cold days, and a way to invigorate and brighten the hottest of days. It can be a “blanky” on emotionally tough days, and a softly humming engine in the background on busy days. It was so nice to read how Cuir was that and more to Danu. Thank you for the beautiful review. I’m in the USA.

  • I always enjoy learning about other people’s journeys in fragrance, and this is no exception. We all have different touchpoints in our fragrance journeys, and different reference points that shape our preferences and point of view later in life. For me, the vintage Dior fragrances that belonged to my grandmother, and the memories they brought, are what got me through a rough time in high school and beyond. Even to this day, as changed as they might be in reformulation (not to mention the impossibility of finding a true Diorissimo) they retain enough of the memory to get me by on those days. I live in the US and have only sampled Mona di Orio fragrances, but I’d love to try Cuir. Thank you.

  • Mona di Orio scents are unlike any other perfume house. At first I thought they are too complex and heavy for me, but now I like many of them, Myrrh Casati being my very favorite.
    I don’t have a specific “light in the dark” fragrance but smelling nice always helps.
    Thank you for the draw. I live in Poland, EU.

  • This is so beautiful: “A lonely time in my life was suddenly enlivened by the igniting of that passion for fragrance I had held all along yet for years had been subsumed”. I find comfort in vintage versions of Guerlain Shalimar, it’s a perfect stress reliever.
    My favorite Mmona di Orio is Orio. Thank you for the draw. EU.

  • What I truly enjoyed in Danu’s fragrant awakenings is the way perfume has such an impact in everyday life, it creates memories and relieves from pain, loneliness and sadness, it is the remedy for every ‘darkness’, I loved the part where it is mentioned the following:
    ‘A lonely time in my life was suddenly enlivened by the igniting of that passion for fragrance I had held all along yet for years had been subsumed. A dry-down of extended longevity yields at last to richness, a scent creamy and full of aromatic warmth like a good Highland Single Malt.
    Cuir and Mona di Orio marked a returning, a remembering of my inner resources, solitary and strong’

    Yes I strongly believe that perfume can be the best remedy in difficult times! I have certain perfumes as pain and tension/anxiety remedies eg Shalimar, Senso, and Vetiver.
    Unfortunately, up till present I never had the chance to experience any from Mona di Orio perfume masterpieces, although I have read so many lovely reviews praising Monas perfume creations and high sense of aesthetics of this amazing woman.
    Thank you for the lovely review from Danu’s and the generous draw from the House of Mona di Orio.
    I am a registered reader living in EU.

  • Miss Almond says:

    I like the story of emotional meaning of scents. For me it works with some scents of nature, like the scent of the air after the storm or freshly cut grass. I have yet to find a perfume which will be my light in the darnkess. Thanks for the draw. I live in Europe and I liked Fb page.

  • My favorite part of the article is “A lonely time in my life was suddenly enlivened by the igniting of that passion for fragrance I had held all along yet for years had been subsumed.” It made me think of fragrances which are important to me and helped me through tough times. And, most surprisingly, I discovered that it was Opium by YSL, which was never my favorite, but always made me feel comfortable, like a good friend.
    I live in the EU. Thanks for the draw.

  • I have many soothing perfumes in my collection, usually the ones I was wearing earlier for a long time during calm and happy periodes in my life. They are rarely niche masterpieces, usually they are just nice and pretty mainstream scents like Cerruti 1881.
    I doubt any of the perfumes by Mona di Orio would qualify as such scent, they are just too complex and too interesting. I think Cuir would be perfect to succeed in negotiations though.

    Thanks for the draw. I am in the EU and my favorite MdO is Amyitis.
    I have already liked Fragrant Awakenings page.

  • Cuir is my very favorite fragrance by Mona and I would be more than happy to win a bottle. I fully agree with the review stating that its contrasting notes “rise off the skin as a sacrilegious paradox”. Its warmth and spicyness makes even the most unpleasant moment more bearable.
    I like the facebook profile. Thank you for the draw. I live in the EU.

  • What a beautiful story. I loved the different experiences that were shared about the decades of time and fragrances that stuck out so much and meant so much. I wonder if fragrance collectors or enthusiasts these days could point to singular fragrances over long periods of time as the author did. It was touching reading how the fragrance awakened by the passion for fragrance:)
    There definitely have been fragrances over the years that have enlivened me or my love of fragrances. It makes it that much better when its been some time between experiences like that and a fragrance comes along. There have also been fragrances that have calmed me when anxieties and stresses were prevalent which is important like being light during dark times. Some fragrances over the years that have had effects like these have been Dolce and Gabbana Pour Home, L’Occitane Eax des Baux and Guerlain Angelique Noire.
    I haven’t had much experience with Mona di Orio perfumes but what I have was wonderful.
    I live in the USA.
    Thank you so much for this review and for the opportunity!