Let’s Talk About It: How Much Perfume is Too MUCH Perfume – Collecting vs. Hoarding

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Vintage Guerlain Samsara EdP,  Monasterium Ettalense – Ettaler Bonus Odor No. 1 EdC pour femme (one of my favorite colognes) – top left center,  Van Cleef & Arpels vintage parfum  – lower right center,  Haramain Attar al Kaaba – center, Todd Oldham vintage EdP – center to the left, Obsession vintage cologne – center front, Olympic OrchidsSonnet XVII

A bounty can be a blessing – or a burden.  How much perfume is too much?  I've been wondering about this of late, as my collection seems to be multiplying exponentially, spreading from its original location in the cellar storage room to every nook and cranny of the house.

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 Amouage Memoir Women – center,Opium vintage EdT – last row center,  Bal a Versailles parfum vintage – left of center, Viktoria Minya Hedonist – center right, Aramis Calligraphy Series, Femme Rochas,  vintage – top center left,  Bourbon French Oriental Rose – center

 In order to bring some sort of order to the chaos, I recently photographed my fragrance cache. I did not include the countless 3 ml attars, mukhallats, ouds and essential oils.  I also did not photograph most of the commercial minis and totally ignored all decants and samples of 10 ml or less. (I will leave those as grist for another mill.) 

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 Red Moscow, vintage – upper left of center, Vero Mito EdP – left of center, Kenneth Corey Rosa Ardiente – bottom center left, Dior Hypnotic Poison, early vintage EdT – center,  Rosarium Blends The Rosarium – bottom center left, Anat Fritz Tzora – upper left, Paco Rabanne Calandre  vintage parfum – center left, Estee Lauder Amber Nude – back row

Even with these exceptions, the count topped out at close to 600 bottles of fragrance, roughly 10% are duplicates.  Is this too much of good thing?  Possibly…

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 O'Driu Peety – center top,  Note Fragrances Blood Orange Chocolat – top center left, Coty Emeraude vintage parfum – center,  L'Occitane Notre Flore Neroli EdP – center,  L'Air du Temps vintage parfum – upper center, Micallef for Her Jewel for her –  right back, Boucheron Trouble vintage EdP –  center left,  Elizabeth Taylor Black pearls vintage 

I know, all too well, how I ended up with this stash, I still find myself wondering when "enough" crosses the line and becomes "too much".  Are there some serious psychological issues that I need to address or should I just go with the volatile flow, jettison the guilt and make sure to store this stuff as far from open flame as possible?

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 Collection of Olympic Orchids 15 ml – front, L'Artisan Parfumeur Premier Figuier Extreme – center, L'Artisan Parfumeur Mure et Musc – far right, Serge Lutens Ambre Sultan – upper left center, Jean Paul Gaultier Classique Intense – upper left, Lancome Climat parfum – mid right center covered

 Although I have been accumulating fragrance for more than half a century, this recent attempt to organize has me wondering about the difference between a socially acceptable "collection" and an out of control "hoard".

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Curve Kicks – left top, Annick Goutal Grand Amour EdP – center, Jacomo Silences vintage – left and center, Guerlain Shalimar colognes – center right, Sarah Horowitz Perfect Gardenia – center left,         Guerlain Petit Guerlain – center right

Hoarding, from what I understand, is often the manifestation of neurosis, the result of an irrational fear of scarcity, of not (or never) having enough.  In the case of perfume, perhaps a dread of discontinuation fuels a fear of running out.

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 Lagerfeld KL parfums vintage – center, Jungle Gardenia vintage parfum – upper center, Coty La Rose Jacqueminot, EdP and EdT, 1980s – center and top center left, Coty Chypre, EdP and EdT, 1980s –  center and top center left, Coty Les Muses, EdP and EdT, 1980s – left of center and top right of center, Shiseido Message from Orchids Orange Cattleya – hidden behind Imprevu on the right,     Shiseido Message from Orchids Dendrobium – hidden behind Dior Poison and Chanel No 19 on right,   Lanvin Spanish Geranium – top center in back, Tabu vintage parfum – center front right, Germaine Monteil L'eau de Monteil –  back left  

 I admit to a bit of hoarding, stockpiling and prepping, but I've convinced myself that I am more of a collector than a hoarder.

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Various vintage Fidji parfums, Fidji bath oil, Fidji du Soir.  Other version of Fidji are in different photos.   Norell parfum vintage – center right, Lucien Lelong Sirroco parfum, vintage  –  right center, DSH Mata Hari – center, Opus Oils Wild Child – left front, Charles of the Ritz Ritual parfum vintage – left front, Givenchy Hot Couture – back row center right, Madam Rochas vintage parfum – center right, Chanel No. 5 vintage parfums, Royal Secret vintage parfum – far right hidden

While hoarding is prompted by a fear of "running out", collecting seems to be driven by the equally powerful fear of "missing out", by insatiable desire, obsessive curiosity, a craving for and an addiction to new olfactive experiences, the excitement of the hunt and the satisfaction of acquisition. 

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Judith Muller Bat Sheba – left front, Caron Fleurs de Rocaille, vintage – right, Annick Goutal Gardenia Passion and Songes – center and right,  Montale White Oud – right top, Various Chanel no 5 perfumes,Imaginary Authors Slow Explosions – left, Niki de Saint Phalle, vintage parfum – center, Faberge vintage  – left, Esteban Oriental Spice – back row

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Parfums M Micallef – I love all perfumes by M Micallef

There are also social aspects involved in collecting perfume.  The fear of missing out can evolve into "keeping up with the Joneses" and become a compulsive drive towards "being on trend". 

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 Fan de Fendi – left, Morris Maria Amalia – top, Brooks Brothers Black Fleece – right front, Clinique Aromatics Elixir vintage – right, Basile by Basile EdP vintage – right

While I admit to occasional "lemming" behaviors, instead of coveting the new and trendy, I lust after the old and discontinued.

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 Sweet Anthem Lolita – left front, Swiss Arabian Dreams of Romancia – center, Rhumba – back left, Rasasi Amber Oud – back row center left, Molinard Jasmin – back center left, Olive Atelier, Olivine and She belongs There – center

Another societal factor that can result in large collections is the idea of fragrance as affordable luxury.  A teen on an allowance, a young householder on a limited budget or a retiree on a fixed income can purchase a perfume and experience a taste of the same indulgent pleasure enjoyed by the more affluent among us.

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  Diorissimo vintage – right front, Bulgari Black – center, Leonard Tamango parfum – left center front, Sirocco Cologne vintage – back row, Michael Storer Stephanie – right center, Adrien Arpel various soliflores,  Judith Muller various – center, Queen Latifah Queen – left center,  Orlane Fleurs d' Orlane  –  left

 Brand recognition also figures into "luxurious" purchases. I have to say that I have never really given much credence to brand names and have always considered fragrance much less a luxury than a necessity, like food or medicine.

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 Versace Blonde EdP – center back,  Madonna Truth or Dare – center back, Mary J. Blige My Life and Blossom –  right and left, Various Elizabeth Taylor parfums  – center

Yes, I do have a lot of perfume.  I also have distinct olfactory images of each scent. Will enough ever be enough? Honestly, I don't know. I do know that fragrance remains a popular collectable because bottles of perfume are so much more than life-less things that takes up space.  A collection of fragrance is a garden of experiences and memories that can be relived again and again.

Do you have a hoard or a treasure trove of perfume?  Is it too much, not enough or is your collection just right? How many bottles do you own? Do you covet more?

Disclosure: I purchased 90 percent of these fragrances, others were given to me for review over the years.

Gail Gross – Sr. Contributor

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24 comments

  • I love your collection! I have a box collection. And, bottles, empty and full. And, art supplies. I guess it’s excessive to many people. Whatever makes you happy. Plus, if you ” have distinct olfactory images of each scent” you are within your rights. Go for it!

  • Gorgeous collection. I kind of slowed down with the collecting as I get older. I think its a little bit of a hoarder in us having to get all these perfumes that in all honesty we would never be able to wear and use all up in “several” lifetimes. I keep telling my boyfriend that he will have to build a pyramid and lay me to rest with all my treasures…LOL. I think we should not judge anyone that find this great pleasure in their love for perfume. As a perfume lover I fully understand. 🙂

  • Deborah Lane McGuire says:

    I consider myself slightly OCD with hoarding tendencies. It makes me feel good to have all these ‘moments of pleasure’ in a bottle, just waiting to be worn again and again. I’ve tackled some of my hoarding issues by buying mostly decants when possible. I pass on to others those that I’ve outgrown as my tastes evolve. so at least I can comfort myself by knowing I”m helping to expand other’s fragrance horizons.

  • Catherine Fraser says:

    I still buy and have backups. I tend to go more vintage today. I have a collection in the thousands of full bottles. My enough is not your enough and I would never presume a limit on another collector. You and you alone will know and practice your limits and you are in a position to share your story or share your collection

  • Beautiful collection! I see mine as a hobby, similar to wine collecting, and hobbies are well, er, expensive. Still, I think we are a little hard on ourselves. As long as we’re relatively within budget, no harm done. I have probably about 200 bottles and have gotten very particular what I purchase, as I only have so much room and they’re really getting to be a pain to dust (I keep them in a closet and only dust twice a year, but still…cleaning that many at a time gives me a migraine!)

  • My feelings and collection are the opposite lol, I get nervous if I have over 4 bottles, so I always give away the rest.

  • all I can say is go YOU! I have lot but you have more-You’ll know when its enough….and as Sherri says (above) clean9ng can be a nightmare. I have these tiny samples…so cute and don’t like to use them in case they finish LOL
    Thanks for the reality check 🙂

  • Wow Gail, that is quite the collection! As long as you get joy from it, I don’t think the size matters! I would never be able to choose what to wear, let alone remember how they all smell, so I think you’ve quite the gift!

  • I also have this problem. I plan to significantly reduce my collection in the near future so that I only keep those I LOVE so I never force myself to wear what doesn’t move me. I may keep some due to their historical importance even if I don’t expect to wear them much.

  • I have about 70 bottles, but I plan to pare down my collection a bit in the near future when I have the time to find the proper homes for the ones that I do not appreciate enough.

    Here’s the way I see collections: If it brings you joy and harms no one, then all is well. But if it gets in the way of your life or of the lives of others, then it is time to reassess.

  • WOW!!! I recently discovered “niche” fragrance when I was down to 3 bottles of fragrance and couldn’t find anything I liked. (that was 3 years ago). I am now at 18 bottles and thinking I have almost enough. It is sometimes too hard to choose which one to put on in the morning. I would never get out of the house if I had the amount you have! It is your line of work, so enjoy. My line of work only allows me to buy those fragrances I truly LOVE, so I enjoy the hunt, sometimes trying 20 or more before purchasing “the one”.

  • Hikmat Sher Afridi says:

    WOW!!!!…..great article & awesome collection. I’ll call it a perfume passion like a hobby. Everyone has some passions & a hobby. Some fond of watches, cars, gems etc etc. Nothing is enough in passion & hobby.
    I do have some perfume collection because of passion that inherited from forefather and above all wearing perfume is Sunnah. The best gift to someone is a perfume so sometimes I giveaway perfumes in my family through a draw in a Family members Facebook group.

  • Gail, much of what you wrote spoke to me. That feeling of “missing out” certainly drives me to collect more. Lately, I’ve been feeling mighty uncomfortable about my perfume collection, partly because my house is very small. I have about 200 bottles, but it is the decant hoard that is impossible; it probably amounts to 600 clamoring critters.

    I have given away a lot of decants and several bottles. Even so, I keep a wishlist of bottles and a watch list on ebay. Sigh Like you, I am forever seeking the rare, the unusual, the bygones.

    Your collection is extraordinary and fabulous. Kudos to you, Gail.

  • “A collection of fragrance is a garden of experiences and memories that can be relived again and again” This is the most beautiful sentence I’ve ever read.
    I own 60 bottles with backups 70-75 for me is for now quite comfortable collection size but I think whit time it will be larger.

  • Wonderful article! Your collection is amazing.
    Unfortunately, I have not job so I have not money. I have only one perfume right now, but I would very like to have many perfumes, because I like them very much. 🙂

  • Nice collection!! I don’t know how many bottles I own, I would say 150-200….but I have never seen them together

  • Too much of a good thing is never enough. Thank you to Gail for sharing her collection. Favorite fragrances are like dear friends. It is wonderful to keep them close, and it is great fun to encounter them by chance. I enjoyed seeing some familiar favorites in Gail’s photos. L’air du Temps always makes me smile. I imagine this collection brings many smiles and happy moments.

  • Wow! What a wonderful collection! If you love perfumes, don’t worry about hoarding or something and just enjoy it 🙂 I have under 20 bottles and hundreds of samples, but I am only the beginner trying now to find out which perfumes I really like 😉

  • Oh Gail. What a Fantabulous collection you have!! I’ve been seriously collecting/hoarding perfume for the last 10 years and NEVER imagined that I could have SO much.
    Over 200 bottles, over 150 decants and probably over 700 samples. Yikes. I’m quite sure my interest in scents wouldn’t be so much if I didn’t belong to so many perfume groups on FB that tempt me with the latest and greatest scents.
    Perfume makes me happy. If you made me choose just one, it would be my Holy Grail SL de Profundis.
    Thank you for sharing your beautiful photos!!

  • My collection (hoard) is at least this big, but I’m really not sure about its size because it’s mostly squirreled away in multiple inaccessible corners shelves and cupboards. if I want to find something I have to go on a major exploration. My biggest challenge is that I have hundreds of samples that I have yet to try, and keep acquiring more. Oh well, I justify it all as “nose education”.

  • I definitely have a major collection of full bottles and lots of samples. I had a plan to catalog the samples, but never got around to it – so they are just everywhere. when I get an urge to try something new, I go “shopping” through my samples or bottles. I am always smelling what’s new and trying different and scents just really make me happy. years ago I sold off a bunch at a garage sale, it looked like the fragrance counter at a major department store. I have since accumulated many more and continue to do so. I believe we must all have the same desire and drives when it comes to perfumes.

  • I justify my “hoarding” behaviors by placing all of my acquisitions in our powder room and informing all guests that they are invited to explore and consult me if they want advice.

  • I hate the thought that I may be a perfume (or any other kind of) hoarder. When I compare my collection (about 70 full bottles) to how much bottles people around me have, I feel strange. But perfume, as I say to myself, is a relatively inexpensive form of luxury and I am really wearing every scent I own.

    I am happy to discover some of my favorite perfumes in your collection: Premier Figuier, Cabotine, Shalimar, Ambre Sultan, Tabu…